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When Nobody Talks

Silence, black squares and the cold room.

When you are done: You will sit through the silence after a question long enough to get a real answer instead of filling it yourself.

Self-paced

$95

5 lessons, about 48 minutes. Yours to keep, including updates.

For: facilitators who have asked a question and watched nothing happen.

You walk out able to

  • Tell a thinking silence from a lost room in under ten seconds
  • Get a response without cold calling anybody
  • Run chat and breakouts so quiet people can win without performing
Buy the course, $95

Find out how long you actually wait

Lesson two is a silent count to eight. Before you buy anything, hold a pad for as long as you would really wait before filling the silence, and see the number. Then sit through the eight count for real. Free, no email.

Open the wait trainer
A video call open on a laptop screen
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How is this different from the live programs?

The live programs put you in a small room with other facilitators and a real session of your own to rebuild. This is the same material without the room.

If you want the room, the live programs start at $450. If you buy this first and move up within 90 days, the $95 comes off.

What do I get?

5 lessons, about 48 minutes of video, the worksheets from the live version, and the one page plan.

No forum, no drip schedule, no certificate. You get the material and the tools, and you keep them.


Read first, free

What to do when nobody talks

Free to read on the site.

Camera off is not disengagement

Free to read on the site.

Not sure which one?

Twenty minutes, bring the session you are stuck on and I will tell you which of these actually helps.

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Look inside

One lesson, in full

Lesson two of When Nobody Talks: count to eight. The page gives the moment it applies, the silent eight second count and the sentence to say if the silence holds, why three seconds is the default and why it fails, what the longer wait buys you, and two things not to do.
One complete lesson page, exactly as it reads in the course. Open it full size